As we e anter the month of May, the air becomes a bit more friendly, the sun shows its lovely rays, and dum dum da dum… We begin wedding season. Brides-to-be choose springy summer months for obvious reasons in Ohio – nicer weather and for some a freed up schedule. So, what do you do when you get the invite and it says, “Black Tie Optional” or doesn’t state a dress requirement at all? Well time of day dictates a lot. Perhaps the happy couple elects a daytime luncheon/brunch on Sunday. For an occasion such as this a pretty summer floral dress would be appropriate and even a hat. Choose bright or pastel colors that reflect the festiveness of the event and carry a girly clutch to close the deal.
Should your lovely invite states “Black Tie Optional”, “Black Tie Preferred”, or “Black Tie” women need to wear their finest attire. A full-length gown is acceptable or a lovely satin dress with beautiful details like crystal embellishments or ornate ruffles would be the way to go. It should go without saying, but hair, make-up, and accessories must be spot-on as well. Your man should don his tuxedo, however if the invitation states “optional” it’s not a requirement to rent a tux if they don’t have one. HOWEVER, they must wear their best suit. Sport coats for an event like this are unacceptable.
Ok, so your invite mentions nothing about dress code and the blessed event takes place after 5p on either Friday or Saturday night. What to wear? The general rule of thumb is dress up more than you think you should. Ladies: Cocktail dresses are a great way to go. Should you despise frolicking in a frock though you may choose a beautiful pair of silky trousers paired with a chiffon top again with special details. A tank top and black pants is a no-no. Men, since it is after 5p a sport coat and nice pants is the most respectable way to be dressed. Khakis and a polo-style shirt are entirely too casual for an event such as a wedding and bottom line insult the hosts of the party.
So, unless the nuptials you are attending state “Hoedown” or “VERY casual backyard picnic” skip shorts, jeans, cut-offs, wife beaters, tee-shirts with inappropriate slogans or beer bottle graphics, and tennis shoes. Remember, a wedding is a very important day to the bride and the groom and when guests arrive in jeans or something else worn on a lazy Sunday afternoon they are showing the ultimate disrespect to those who planned this day so carefully. Choose your attire wisely and you’ll not only feel better about yourself, but the merry couple with appreciate your efforts.
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It’s a huge slap in the face when people look like slobs at a wedding, you can hang up the “comfort” cloths for one night. News flash guys, wearing a shirt & tie without the jacket is stupid; unless you’re 3 years old invest in at least one nice coat!!!… you forgot one thing SJS, it’s all about the shoes!!!!