Stan Hywet Venetian Nights Gala: What will you wear?

Ah, another year another Stan Hywet gala on the beautiful grounds of the stately old manor.  I have attended the SH gala for the past six years and look forward to it year after year one because it marks the anniversary of my six-year-long courtship with my lovely mate, and two because it’s a chance to don a long flowy evening gown on a warm summer evening.

Since, the gala is “black tie” women must dress accordingly.  Short dresses are ok so long as they are “gussied” up and not mere daytime sundresses.  What will pass the test?  Sparkly embellishment, ruffles, interesting necklines, and a beautiful fabric.  What will not make the mark?  Cotton or linen day dresses, skin-tight bandage dresses, or business attire.  Long gowns are an obvious choice and since the summertime heat may come between you and your favorite heavy satin dress skip weighty fabrics and instead try chiffon or a drapy silk that is without excessive boning.

I must say, in the past I see a lot of “Pageant” like dresses(read: excessive sparkle, noticeable foam boobie cups, and in-your-face colors like canary yellow or brighter than bright pink) that not only look dated, but also look ridiculous on folks who aren’t on stage doing the “Lightbulb” wave.   I have also (GASP!) seen a few ladies donning straw hats on the lawn as well… hats are terrific – however are reserved for afternoon tea or for another daytime event.  So, please skip the toppers, they aren’t welcome after 5p.  The following are some basic rules to follow when choosing your attire:

1. No “Homecoming Hair” a la 1980/90 with corny tendrils and cascading curly q’s.

2.  No pageant dresses

3. Play up your best assets: Love your legs?  Go short – try a pretty sequins dress and don simple gold wrap around the ankle high sandals.  Rather show off your well-sculpted arms?  Go long in a pretty chiffon dress that will flutter in the wind.  Choose a pretty color like butter, petal pink, or chartreuse.

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4. Dress your age.  No 60 year olds in second-skin lycra and no 30-something in a dowdy drape-y nothing. This rule also applies to your shape…

5. When in doubt classic is the best way to go.  Try a strapless black column gown with dainty pearls.

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